I’ve noticed something profound in my journey — whenever you come from a different place, whether it’s physically, socially, or intellectually, people often struggle to accept you. It’s not always obvious at first, but it’s there, subtle yet real.
Why? Because being different challenges the status quo — the comfortable structures people build around themselves to maintain their power or their sense of security. When you bring new ideas, new ways of thinking, or simply a different background, it shakes the foundations they’ve carefully constructed.
Sometimes, it’s not even about you directly. It’s about what you represent or reveal — maybe something missing in them or a weakness they’ve spent years trying to hide. Your presence becomes a mirror they don’t want to look into, and instead of curiosity, you’re met with resistance, skepticism, or even fear.
I’ve felt this many times. It’s hard, and it can be lonely. But I’ve also learned that this resistance says more about them than it does about you. It’s a sign that you’re on the right path, pushing boundaries, and bringing something new into the room.
So if you’re standing in a place where people don’t seem to accept you, remember: you are not the problem. You’re the change, and change will always challenge those who prefer comfort over growth.
Keep going. Your difference is your strength.